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Therapy for
Social Anxiety

Social anxiety is more than just shyness. It can feel like constantly worrying about how you're coming across, overthinking interactions long after they’ve ended, or feeling physically anxious in situations where you fear judgment, embarrassment, or rejection. We specialize in evidence-based treatment for social anxiety in teens, young adults, and adults.

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WHAT WE TREAT

Fear Of Judgment, Avoidance, And Overthinking In Social Situations.

People with social anxiety often feel intensely self-conscious around other people. They may worry about sounding awkward, saying the wrong thing, or being negatively evaluated in some way. Many experience physical symptoms of anxiety, like blushing, sweating, shaking, nausea, or feeling mentally “blank” when attention is on them, and continue replaying interactions long after they’ve ended. For some people, social anxiety shows up in obvious ways: avoiding conversations, parties, dating, presentations, or speaking up in groups. For others, the anxiety is quieter but still persistent: mentally rehearsing conversations, monitoring themselves while talking, or assuming other people noticed something embarrassing, awkward, or “off” about them. Many people with social anxiety spend a lot of energy trying not to look or feel anxious. They may overprepare, stay quiet, avoid eye contact, apologize excessively, overexplain, or rely on other “safe” behaviors meant to reduce anxiety or prevent embarrassment in the moment. We work with many teens and adults who appear confident, capable, or high-functioning on the outside while privately struggling with anxiety, self-consciousness, or fear of getting something wrong.

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Social Anxiety Can Show Up In Many Different Ways

avoiding parties, dating, networking, or group settings 

staying quiet in meetings or class even when you have something to say 

overpreparing for presentations or conversations 

worrying for days before social events

replaying interactions afterward and criticizing yourself 

fearing embarrassment, awkwardness, rejection, or negative evaluation 

relying on “safe” behaviors like rehearsing, apologizing, overexplaining, or staying close to familiar people 

Over time, social anxiety often starts to shrink a person's world. Opportunities get avoided. Relationships become harder to pursue. Confidence drops, not because someone lacks social ability, but because anxiety keeps limiting what feels possible.

Things We Hear A Lot

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I hate when attention is on me.”

I constantly worry people think I’m awkward or weird.”

I panicked during my presentation and now I don’t want to do any more.”

I avoid things that make me anxious, like dating or new groups of friends, but then I feel frustrated with myself afterward.”

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Social anxiety disorder affects nearly 1 in 10 teens and up to 1 in 8 adults, making it one of the most common mental health conditions, and one of the most undertreated.

Merikangas et al., 2010; Leichsenring & Leweke, 2017

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HOW WE WORK

​evidence-based Treatment That Helps People Feel More Free And Confident Socially.

We use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and exposure-based strategies to help people gradually break out of the patterns that keep social anxiety going.
Many people with social anxiety fall into patterns like mind-reading, assuming you know what others are thinking, or catastrophizing, where one awkward moment feels like total social failure. We help people recognize and respond differently to those patterns instead of automatically treating them as facts.
We also focus on the behavioral side of social anxiety. Many people unintentionally rely on avoidance or “safe” behaviors meant to reduce anxiety in the moment: staying quiet, overpreparing, rehearsing, avoiding eye contact, mentally scripting conversations, or leaving situations early. While understandable, those patterns tend to reinforce anxiety, making people feel less confident and capable over time. Treatment involves learning ways to challenge anxious predictions and practice social situations differently. Collaboratively and gradually, we help you approach instead of avoi social situations. We focus on reducing safety behaviors and learning that anxiety, awkwardness, and uncertainty are actually tolerable. We also work on the physical side of anxiety, including the fear of blushing, shaking, sweating, or visibly looking anxious around other people. Part of the process is learning that those sensations are uncomfortable, but not dangerous. The goal isn’t to become the loudest or most outgoing person in the room. It’s to feel more present, flexible, and authentic in your relationships, work, and everyday life.

GET IN TOUCH

Our team specializes in cognitive behavioral therapy for social anxiety, overthinking, and fear of judgment. Dr. Hoffman also created the Exposure Deck, a set of social anxiety exposure challenges for teens, adults, and clinicians. We offer a free 15-minute consultation. It’s a chance to talk about what’s going on and get a sense of whether we’re the right fit.

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